I want to stay in our family home.
Everyday l support client’s as they deal with the heartbreaking decisions of dividing assets which they have worked hard to obtain. More often than not, I hear the woman say, ‘I want to stay in our family home’. In a lot of cases, this just isn’t possible. The thought of selling just another burden to bare. The emotional attachment and secure environment become the driving force in doing whatever possible to keep the property.
But, l would like my clients to review all options and think about the bigger picture. In most cases keeping the family home causes extra stress and prevents the person from moving on in their life as the debt associated translates into an anchor around their neck. Limiting their cash flow and preventing them living a life of happiness.
In some cases, the thought of betrayal and the hurt associated with the family breakdown brings financial reality to a head. And reviewing your circumstances, and spending can also be an eye-opening experience. For some clients after years of being together and then review your assets versus liabilities can seem like a wasted opportunity. With more debt than you were prepared to consider possible. Here in Australia, our way to wealth is via property and capital growth. Depositing of that asset may seem silly. (more…)